What has been cannot be changed. How you look at it can. What is going on now is what you are paying attention to at the moment and what demands your attention. What will come is still forming and can be altered by what you either do or don’t do now. It is up to you to make the choices that will create beauty and order or ugliness and chaos in your life.
Choose to reframe what appears to be negative into something that is necessary for you to realize the other side. Use its appearance as a motivator to visualizeand feel the joy from ‘being’ on the other side of negative ‘appearances’. Remember, most of what you worry, doubt or fear about NEVER comes to fruition unless you convince yourself that it will and you continue to feel and believe it will.
Stop being your own worst enemy and become your own best friend. Treat yourself like the divine child of the Most High God that you are and all else that edifies your being will be added unto you. It’s all in how you experience the truthfulness of beauty and order instead of the illusion of ugliness and chaos.
Give thanks for the negativity as an indicator of you making the proactive choice of proceeding in a positive direction. This way, you will not resist it and you will allow it to be exactly what it is; a reminderof where you don’t want to be. Knowing what you don’t want to be is just as advantageous to your growth and expansion as knowing what you want to be. It allows you to make proactive choices in determining what is beneficial or detrimental for individual fulfillment.
Knowing what works and doesn’t work gives you the edge on manifesting what you need, when you need it and how it will come about. Know what has worked in the past and what hasn’t and reframe any and all occurrences of what happens now to be exactly what you need to grow and expand. Be fruitful and aware and all that you need will be manifest.
It is when you emotionally energize that which you don’t need that it crops up time and time again. Realize that YOU are recreating it and put a stop to it by not resisting or fighting its occurrence. Allow it to be exactly what it is and let it pass through you without attaching any emotions to it. Be focused on a positive end result and feel the joy of living in that result! Be ye therefore perfect! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D. (Spirituality Guidance Channel)