What does it mean to develop your feminine side? It is the joy of changing your mind after you have firmly made it up because your true feelings have surfaced and you know what is best for all concerned.
What does it mean to develop your masculine side? It is the joy of making up your mind after you have changed it because you have observed what doesn’t work and embrace what does.
What does it mean to be gender balanced? It means that you not only observe what works and what doesn’t work but you allow others to discover that ontheir own without forcing your agenda on them; while respecting their right to make their own choices that are different from yours.
When the feminine and masculine sides are in balanced in an individual, Divine order is not only perceived but it becomes a priority. It is allowed to transpire without interference from one’s ego in controlling, dominating and manipulating events, situations, occurrences, circumstances and the behavior of others to the advantage of self. It is placing yourself in the slipstream of Divine order to become whom and what you were created to be without any struggle or resistance. It is living life with the consideration and respect for all of life.
Being balanced means that youare in harmony with nature, life and beauty. It means that you are aware of the differences and you are choosing to live for the similarities. It means that what you believe to be true is replaced by what you divinely know to be true.
The male and female expressions of life are part of the perceived dualistic reality and afford us the ability to see beyond our limited perspectives and selfish yearnings. They allow us to be one with nature and life and live in harmony instead of discordance. Balancing our ‘sides’ is integral in coming into a more spiritual understanding of life and living completely in Divine love everlasting!
Make the time each and every day to explore both sides of your being. Come to know the other side as an asset to you unfolding your Divine purpose in Divine order. Be that which you are; a complete being of Divine love that shares Divine love! You were created as a perfect being of Divine love. Stop being anything else than that! ~Dean A. Banks, D.D. (Spirituality Guidance Channel)